Watch the replay of the 2023 Soft Cock-Tail Mixer, the final event of the 2023 Soft Cock Week, recorded on Saturday, Nov 11, 2023. This was a live event with the SCW founder, Michelle Renee, and some of the contributors from the week, including Phoenix Mandel, John Ellsworth, Erica Leroy, Mish Middelmann, Lee Jagger, Amy Weissfeld, and Peace Buffalo. There was a live audience that could comment and post questions in the chat.

Learn more about the week's events at https://SoftCockWeek.com

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Dr Joe Kort, a sex therapist based in Detroit, Michigan, about shame in sex. They also talk about expanding our definitions of sex, the term "side", and erotic orientation.

Psychotherapist Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW, is the clinical director and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. He is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops, and the host of Smart Sex Smart Love podcast. You can learn more at JoeKort.com and find him on social media at @drjoekort. On tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Rekindling Desire with Barry McCarthy on Joe's podcast Smart Sex Smart Love

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (learn about responsive desire)

Also a great Ted Talk with her about sustaining sexual connection

The Great Sex Rescue

RecoveringMan.net

Brian Gibney

Lee Phillips' Sex and Chronic Illness podcast episode with Michelle Renee

Guys We Fucked episode with Michelle Renee

Ruby Ryder and PeggingParadise.com

Movemeber

The Intimacy Lab Podcast

My favorite tshirts:

Side Tshirt

Butthole Whisperer Tshirt

Sexual Intellectual Tshirt

Whores are Healers Tshirt

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In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Adelina Adler, sex coach and sexuality educator, about the definition of sex and how reframing that definition can open up a world of sex possibilities!

Adelina Adler is a sex coach and sex educator based in Wilmington, NC. You can find Adelina on instagram at @askaddyadler. She is the host of Sexplorations! with Adelina Adler on Spotify, ⁠The Naked Booth on Youtube⁠, and the host of an online event called Sex Talk Saturdays.

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Sex Geekdom

Sex Geek Some Camp

Arousal non-concordance

OMG Yes

This is Life with Lisa Ling on CNN episode on Surrogate Partner Therapy with Mirror Exercise can be seen on the front page (scroll down) on HumanConnectionCoach.com

JoJo Bear

Porn Yoga

Erica Leroy Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast

Mish Middelmann Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast

Joan Price and Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex

The Intimacy Lab Podcast

Come As You Are

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Erica Leroye, the founder of Creative Body Release, which is a multidisciplinary method, helping adult experiential learners become empowered advocates for their sexual health and their overall well-being. In this episode, we talk about the mechanics of the cock and how masturbation coaching can be a helpful tool for cock owners. Erica also shares her personal connection to Soft Cock Week.

To contact Erica, email erica@creativebodyrelease.com.

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

⁠Momentum Condoms and Lube

In this episode, Michelle Renee joins Mish Middelmann of RecoveringMan.net, a website focused on rediscovering life and manhood after prostate cancer, including contributor blogs and an online support community.

Mish Middelmann was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2019 at the age of 61. Through his own journey, he saw a need for men to share their stories in an effort to get the support that the medical world was not able to provide which is now RecoveringMan.net.

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Mish's interview with Cam Fraser

Ruby Ryder

Dr Jo Milios - "A watched cock never comes"

Brene Brown TED Talk on Vulnerability

Literotica

The Intimacy Lab Episode 1 about Michelle's journey with orgasm

Join Michelle Renee as she talks with her colleague, Kyle Hoffman, about his personal connection to Soft Cock Week.

Kyle helps people create social lives full of deep, fulfilling connections. He offers hands-on intimacy coaching, touch and cuddle therapy, and life coaching.
He serves people of all genders, shapes, and orientations. He also offers group workshops on cuddling and emotional and physical intimacy. Some are a safe clothing optional space, and some are for only men, only women, or for all genders.
Kyle works with people remotely and in person. He’s based in Philadelphia and travels to clients.
Contact him and sign up to receive workshop invites at www.cuddlingandcoaching.com

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which a person feels sexually attracted to someone only after they've developed a close emotional bond with them. Forming a bond doesn’t guarantee a person will feel a sexual attraction, but the bond is needed before sexual activity is even possible. Per Cleveland Clinic

Come as You Are⁠ by Emily Nagoski

3-Minute Game Demo

Barry McCarthy on Smart Sex, Smart Love with Joe Kort

Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen

CuddleParty.org

MEN’S CUDDLING GROUP: HOW IT WORKS IN REDEFINING MASCULINITY

Some of Michelle's Favorite resources for sex ed:

Scarleteen

Come As You Are (linked above)

Girl Sex 101

Sex for One

Netflix's The Principles of Pleasure

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Lee Jagger about pleasure and how learning to give erotic massage can be a gateway to better communication, for all genders.

Lee Jagger is the CEO of Rock The Bedroom and has helped thousands of women feel more confident in the bedroom using her signature erotic massage techniques. She has made it her mission to normalize conversations around sexuality, deliver sex education in a professional & classy format, and help women have an amazing sex life even if intercourse is impossible. She's had hands-on experience with over 2,000 male clients to gain the knowledge that she now shares with women. You can learn more at RocktheBedroom.com. You can find Lee on socials at @rockthebedroom.

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

On this episode of The Soft Cock Week Podcast, we talk with Dr Susie Gronski, a pelvic floor physical therapist from Ashville, NC. While we talk mainly about rehabilitation after prostate cancer, this episode has great content for all penis owners experiencing erectile disappointment. We even talk about penis pumps and how to use them. If you can catch this episode on video, we do have some anatomy displays and penis pump instruction that is best with the video version. Either way, we think you'll learn a lot in this episode. Thank you, Dr Susie for being part of Soft Cock Week 2023!

Specializing in men’s pelvic and sexual health for over a decade, Dr Susie Gronski is a Licensed Doctor of Physical Therapy, Certified Pelvic Rehabilitation Practitioner, AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, University of Michigan trained sexuality counselor, an international teacher and author of Pelvic Pain the Ultimate Cock Block. You can learn more at drsusieg.com. Susie is on Instagram at https://instagram.com/dr.susieg and on Youtube at https://www.youtube.com/@DrSusieGronski/.

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at meetmichellerenee.com.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to SoftCockWeek.com, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Mish Middelmann and RecoveringMan.net