Watch the replay of the 2023 Soft Cock-Tail Mixer, the final event of the 2023 Soft Cock Week, recorded on Saturday, Nov 11, 2023. This was a live event with the SCW founder, Michelle Renee, and some of the contributors from the week, including Phoenix Mandel, John Ellsworth, Erica Leroy, Mish Middelmann, Lee Jagger, Amy Weissfeld, and Peace Buffalo. There was a live audience that could comment and post questions in the chat.

Learn more about the week's events at https://SoftCockWeek.com

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Dr Joe Kort, a sex therapist based in Detroit, Michigan, about shame in sex. They also talk about expanding our definitions of sex, the term "side", and erotic orientation.

Psychotherapist Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW, is the clinical director and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. He is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops, and the host of Smart Sex Smart Love podcast. You can learn more at JoeKort.com and find him on social media at @drjoekort. On tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Rekindling Desire with Barry McCarthy on Joe's podcast Smart Sex Smart Love

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (learn about responsive desire)

Also a great Ted Talk with her about sustaining sexual connection

The Great Sex Rescue

RecoveringMan.net

Brian Gibney

Lee Phillips' Sex and Chronic Illness podcast episode with Michelle Renee

Guys We Fucked episode with Michelle Renee

Ruby Ryder and PeggingParadise.com

Movemeber

The Intimacy Lab Podcast

My favorite tshirts:

Side Tshirt

Butthole Whisperer Tshirt

Sexual Intellectual Tshirt

Whores are Healers Tshirt

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In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Adelina Adler, sex coach and sexuality educator, about the definition of sex and how reframing that definition can open up a world of sex possibilities!

Adelina Adler is a sex coach and sex educator based in Wilmington, NC. You can find Adelina on instagram at @askaddyadler. She is the host of Sexplorations! with Adelina Adler on Spotify, ⁠The Naked Booth on Youtube⁠, and the host of an online event called Sex Talk Saturdays.

The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes.

Notes from this show:

Sex Geekdom

Sex Geek Some Camp

Arousal non-concordance

OMG Yes

This is Life with Lisa Ling on CNN episode on Surrogate Partner Therapy with Mirror Exercise can be seen on the front page (scroll down) on HumanConnectionCoach.com

JoJo Bear

Porn Yoga

Erica Leroy Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast

Mish Middelmann Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast

Joan Price and Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex

The Intimacy Lab Podcast

Come As You Are