Death is nothing at all. Grief is very real. My husband had a stage 4 cancer diagnosis at 52 and died at 61 years. We had years to plan and explore our plan to write this book together, if possible after he died. I was a grief counselor for Hospice across his whole disease process. The After Death Communication stories of my clients gave us hope that not only would death not truly separate us, but could begin a different form of a continuing relationship. He agreed to provide proof for me that his consciousness survived after his body died. He did just that. This book is our story.

Pancho and I met in 1973, married in 1978 and he died of Squamous Cell Carcinoma. His cancer was diagnosed as an unknown primary and finally Lung Cancer in 2012. His cancer was a stage 4 when it was diagnosed. It was serious. He had a 50/50 change to live for 5 years. This story looks back through the illness, treatments we explored and the dying process. It records my grief process and how he was able to provide the proof I sought. For someone who is dying, losing a loved one, or grieving the loss of a loved one, our story provides hope. It follows my intrepid grief journey across the world, exploring spiritual sites and searching for answers.