The Murder of Alexandra Dux: Love, Jealousy, and a Tragic End MILFORD, Conn. (AP) — On a seemingly ordinary day in May 2006, the small, quiet town of Milford was rocked by a brutal crime that would leave residents shaken and searching for answers. Alexandra Dux, a 26-year-old aspiring dancer and actress, was found savagely murdered in the basement of her family home. It wasn’t just the tragedy of her death that shocked the town, but the disturbing details of the crime scene—Alexandra had been beaten to death, stabbed, and left in a pool of blood. As investigators worked to piece together what had happened, they uncovered a twisted tale of love, jealousy, and revenge that spanned years. Matthew Pew, Alexandra’s ex-boyfriend, would eventually be charged and convicted of her murder. However, the path to justice was fraught with delays, false leads, and unexpected twists that made this case one of the most perplexing and emotionally charged crimes Milford had ever seen. This is the story of Alexandra Dux’s life, her tragic death, and the long, painful road to justice that followed. Through interviews, case files, and courtroom drama, we will explore the intricate details of a crime motivated by jealousy and obsession, and the impact it had on Alexandra’s family, friends, and the community. The Life of Alexandra Dux: Dreams Cut Short Born on December 9, 1979, in New Haven, Connecticut, Alexandra Dux was the youngest of three children in a close-knit family. She grew up in Milford, a picturesque suburban town located just an hour’s drive from New York City. Her parents, John and Linda, had met in 1974 and quickly married, creating a stable and loving environment for their children. Alexandra’s two older brothers, with whom she shared a strong bond, were her protectors and playmates, often engaging in family sports and outdoor activities. From an early age, Alexandra exhibited a passion for performing arts, particularly dance and gymnastics. By the time she was in high school, she was already winning local dance competitions and earning recognition for her talents. Her dream was to become an actress, a goal that seemed within reach due to her energy, charisma, and dedication. Alexandra’s friends described her as “full of life,” with a bright personality that drew people in. She had a natural ability to connect with others and was beloved by those who knew her. After graduating from high school, Alexandra enrolled in college and continued her dance training while balancing a part-time job at a local bank. She pursued a degree in finance but never gave up on her passion for the arts. As a talented dancer, she participated in various performances, eventually earning a teaching assistant position at a local dance academy. By the age of 23, Alexandra had secured a job as a systems analyst at the same bank where she worked part-time during college, demonstrating her ability to excel in both her professional and creative pursuits. However, it was her involvement in acting that brought her the most excitement. Alexandra began to get small roles in music videos and television shows, including a supporting role on the popular TV series Law & Order. Her agent in New York was working hard to help her land bigger parts, and it seemed that her career was on the verge of taking off. But in the midst of her burgeoning success, Alexandra’s personal life was unraveling in ways that would ultimately lead to her death. A Romance Turns Dark: Matthew Pew Enters the Picture Alexandra met Matthew Pew during her early twenties, and the two quickly began a relationship. Matthew, seven years older than Alexandra, had a troubled past. He had been in and out of prison, with a criminal record that included theft and assault. Despite these red flags, Alexandra was drawn to him, and their relationship blossomed. Friends and family, however, expressed concerns about Matthew’s temper and possessiveness, warning Alexandra to be careful. Matthew had an explosive personality, often becoming jealous and controlling. As their relationship progressed, it became clear that he was not supportive of Alexandra’s ambitions. Unlike Alexandra, who was building a career in both finance and the arts, Matthew was unemployed for long stretches of time and seemed content to drift from job to job. His lack of ambition was a source of tension between them, and Alexandra began to feel that Matthew was holding her back. In January 2004, after years of growing frustration, Alexandra decided to end the relationship. The breakup was not amicable. Matthew was furious, refusing to accept that Alexandra was moving on. He began sending her threatening letters from prison, one of which spanned eight pages, detailing his anger and jealousy. He even showed up unannounced at her home on multiple occasions, trying to win her back. Despite his attempts to rekindle their relationship, Alexandra stood firm in her decision. She wanted to focus on her ...
