Watchfulness is like a compass for your marriage.
Watchful Questions: - What can I do today to let my wife know I love her? - Are these thoughts I keep having helping or hurting my relationship with my husband? Where do I need to change my thinking? - Have I adequately put my feelings of love into affirming words this week? - Am I doing ____ more for me or my spouse? - During the fight we just had, did I show distrust or disrespect toward my husband in any way? What should I do about that? - What bids for connection has my spouse offered today? Have I responded by turning toward him or her? - What kind of time have we invested in each other in the past day or two? Is it really enough, or are we just giving each other our leftovers? - What have I done today to intentionally stir up my passion for my wife or my husband? - What have I truly savored with my senses (sights, tastes, smells, or sounds) today? - Have we really talked this week about more than functional things? Have we gotten real about how we are and what we feel about what’s happening lately? - In our most recent disagreement, did I allow grace to be at the center of our conversation? Was I more focused on being right than on maintaining our connection? - What do I sense that God is doing in our marriage these days? Have I communicated that to my spouse? Have I remembered to include my wife and marriage in my prayers? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Get the Book "The Path of Intimacy" on Kindle: https://amzn.to/40XtEtd in paperback: https://amzn.to/400MI8k Or get the SALE price now in our HMM Store ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We invite you to check out all our Moments episodes and SHORTS on YouTube: -----||| Our website: -----||| Get our newsletter and receive a free ebook, "Intimate Connection for Couples - Conversations that Build Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Intimacy." -----||| NEW! "Intimate Connections" A Couple's e-Course for Building Connection and Deepening Intimacy -----||| Shop our store for great marriage-building resources: -------------------------------------------------------------------- Are You Watching Scott & Jenni Means Heaven Made Marriage Minute Season 2 Episode 16 -------------------------------------------------------------------- #thepathofintimacy #heavenmademarriage #christianmarriage #marriagetips #coupledifferences #marriagehelp #watchfulness